Anxiety5 min readDec 8, 2025

Understanding Anxiety: What Your Body Is Trying to Tell You

Shelja Ghai

Shelja Ghai

M.A. Counseling Psychology

Anxiety isn't just a feeling β€” it's a full-body experience. When we understand what's happening physically, we can better respond to and manage these sensations.

The Physical Side of Anxiety

Your body's stress response, often called 'fight or flight,' evolved to protect you from danger. When activated, it triggers a cascade of physical changes:

Racing Heart: Your heart pumps faster to send blood to your muscles, preparing you to run or fight.

Rapid Breathing: You breathe faster to take in more oxygen for your muscles.

Muscle Tension: Your muscles tense up, ready for action.

Digestive Changes: Blood flow shifts away from digestion, which can cause stomach discomfort.

Why This Matters

Understanding these physical responses helps us realize that anxiety isn't dangerous β€” it's our body trying to protect us. The problem is that this response can be triggered by perceived threats (like social situations or deadlines) just as easily as real ones.

What You Can Do

When you notice these physical signs, try these approaches:

  • Name it: 'This is my body's stress response. It's trying to protect me.'
  • Ground yourself: Use the 5-4-3-2-1 technique to engage your senses.
  • Breathe deeply: Slow, deep breaths signal safety to your nervous system.
  • Move your body: Physical movement can help release the tension.
  • Remember, your anxiety is not your enemy. It's a messenger. Learning to listen to and work with it is a key part of the healing journey. πŸ’œ

    Shelja Ghai

    About Shelja Ghai

    Shelja is a counseling psychologist with an M.A. from Amity University. She's passionate about making mental health accessible and creates safe spaces for healing, growth, and self-discovery.

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